Song Details
- Album Release Date: 2012
- Genre: singer-songwriter
Song Meaning of “I Know How to Lose You” by John Hiatt
The song I Know How to Lose You is an emotionally vulnerable, self-reflective look at a relationship gone wrong. In the song, John Hiatt reflects on a past and failed relationship with insight and self-awareness. He speaks of the pain and sadness of letting go but also acceptance and growth. He acknowledges his missteps in the relationship and admits “it was all my doing” but instead of wallowing in self-pity, he realizes he must move on and make different choices. He resigns himself to the fact that it’s over and recognizes that although he made mistakes, they weren’t enough to prevent the inevitable end of the relationship – “it wasn’t enough, I know how to lose you”.
The song’s empowering chorus offers a reminder that although it’s never easy to let go of someone you love, sometimes ending a relationship is the best thing for both parties. By accepting his failures and understanding that this was the right decision, Hiatt is able to come to terms with the end and make peace with it. In the end, he shows strength in his courage to move on.